#1 22-04-24 20:55:00

Elora108

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Watching Porn

May I suggest that when a video posts "Watching Porn," we get a glimpse of what that porn is? It would be much more erotic to see what type of porn the subject is watching that gets her off.

richard

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Re: Watching Porn

Usually you do, it depends on how the contributor films it.

Hangdog90

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Re: Watching Porn

May I suggest that when a video posts "Watching Porn," we get a glimpse of what that porn is? It would be much more erotic to see what type of porn the subject is watching that gets her off.

On a related matter, when a model is reading erotica or pornoraphic magazines in a film, it's fun to explore those sources.

For example recently, Jade_B in Stripped Back 1 , was aroused by reading from Anais Nin's "Spy in the House of Love" a book first published in 1954. Sabina the teller of the story, is married to a rather vanilla husband, Alan. she organises her life and manages her marriage so that she can take pleasure when and how she wants it.  She is driven simply by sensual desire and rejects the sentimentality of love.

They say that boys play at love to get sex and girls play at sex to get love, but Sabina isn’t interested in love; she has designed an elaborate persona as an actor so that she can absent herself from Alan to have random sexual encounters with other men.

When the story opens with a late night phone call that she makes to a random number in hope of a pick-up, the man who answers is named by the narrator as The Lie Detector, and he traces her to a bar where she is not behaving like a respectable married woman at all.  The identity of this man, the Lie Detector is not revealed until the end of the story.

Througout the book, each of Sabina's men is associated with a particular piece of music. Wagner's Tristan and Isolde, Debussy’s Ile Joyeuse, and then Clair de Lune all feature with variou lovers. But it’s the African drums that convey a transgression that would have shocked America before the Civil Rights movement. Sabine’s relationship with Mambo is across the colour bar – yet also not.  This is because – as Nin is careful to explain – although he is African, his skin is white due to a grandmother from France or Spain. When she hears the drumming from the street and goes into the club, she immediately is filled with desre for the African drummer:

"His singing was offered to her in the cup of his mouth and she drank it intently, without spilling a drop of this incantation of desire. Each note was the brush of his mouth upon her.  His singing grew exalted and the drumming deeper and sharper and it showered upon her heart and her body.  Drum – drum – drum – drum – drum – upon her heart, she was the drum, her skin was taut under his hands, and the drumming vibrated through the rest of her body.  Wherever he rested his eyes, she felt the drumming of his fingers upon her stomach, her breasts, her hips.  His eyes rested on her naked feet in sandals and they beat an answering rhythm. Hs eyes rested on the indented waist where the hips began to swell out, and she felt possessed by his song. When he sttopped druming, he left his hands spread on the drumskin, as if he did not want to remove his hands from her body, and they continued to look at each other and then away, as if fearing that everyonehad seen the desire flowing between them."

I wonder if this was the passage Jade_B was reading before other needs took over?

Last edited by Hangdog90 (27-04-24 17:06:32)